Cl and OP have been married for over 25 years. He has been physically, sexually, and emotionally abusive throughout the marriage. He has gotten their 27 yo son to be emotionally abusive to Cl as well. Cl left after OP moved their son back in. Cl called the police, but they said they cant make the son leave if OP is allowing him to be there. No recent physical violence, so they couldn't arrest OP for the abuse. Cl said she has his criminal records because he was arrested for abuse. She thinks it was in the 90s. She has a copy of her marriage license. They got marriage at the JP.